Why One Parent Can’t Decide What’s “Best” for the Child

When emotions run high in a custody dispute, it’s easy for one parent, often the one who has taken on most of the caregiving responsibilities, to believe they know what’s best for the child. While those instincts come from love, Colorado family law emphasizes that, except in certain extreme cases, both parents have a voice when it comes to important decisions affecting their children.

Courts in Colorado make custody determinations based on the best interests of the child, which is a balanced standard that considers emotional, physical, and developmental needs, not just one parent’s opinion. Judges look at the relationship between the child and both parents, the ability to provide stability, and how well each parent supports the child’s relationship with the other. This doesn't mean they take the child's wishes into account, but rather that they attempt to give both parents an equal opportunity to parent the child and spend time with them. The courts like to see that each parent is doing their best to be civil and supportive, which minimizes contention and trauma to the child during and after the divorce, and helps everyone involved move forward. When the parents cannot communicate, apps like Talking Parents may be suggested to conform communication to a businesslike method that focuses on the child's needs.

The truth is, even well-intentioned parents can sometimes let hurt or frustration influence their judgment. Working with an experienced family law attorney can help you present your perspective clearly while keeping the focus on what truly benefits your child in the long run. Starting therapy during your divorce can also help you maintain your composure and think clearly instead of reactively.

At Justin Tucker Law, we understand how deeply you care about your children. Our role is to help you protect your parental rights while encouraging fair, child-centered solutions that set your family up for long-term success. By combining our legal support with a qualified therapist's care, you can approach your case with confidence and create the best solution for your family.

Remember: Every situation is unique, and this article is for general information only -- it’s not legal advice. To discuss your specific case, contact us for a consultation.